FORGIVENESS PRAYER
In the following prayer, most of
the significant areas will be covered. Often such a prayer will bring to mind
other areas that need forgiveness. Not all of it will apply to you, but let the
Holy Spirit move freely and guide your mind to persons or groups that you need
to forgive and open our ears to the voice of God.
Lord Jesus Christ, I ask today
for your help that I may forgive everyone in my life that has hurt me. I know
that You will give me strength to forgive and I thank you that You love me more
than I love myself and want my happiness more than I desire it for myself.
Lord I forgive myself for my
sins faults and failings.
For all that is truly bad in
myself or all that I think is bad.
I do forgive myself.
For any delving in the occult,
horoscopes, séances, fortune telling.
For taking Your Name in vain.
For not worshipping You.
For hurting my parents; for
getting drunk, for taking dope.
For sins against my purity, for
adultery, for abortion, for stealing, lying,
I am truly forgiving myself
today.
Thank You Lord, for Your grace
in this moment.
I truly forgive my mother.
I forgive her for all the times
she hurt or resented me, for being angry with me and for all the times she
punished me.
I forgive her for the times she
preferred my brothers and sisters to me.
I forgive her for the times she
called me dumb, ugly, stupid, the worst of the children, or that I cost the
family a lot of money.
For the times she told me I was
unwanted, an accident, a mistake, or not what she expected.
I forgive her.
I forgive my father.
I forgive him for any
non-support, lack of love, affection or attention.
I forgive him for any lack of
time, for not giving me his companionship, for his drinking, arguing and
fighting with my mother or the other children.
For his severe punishments, for
desertion, for being away from home,
For divorcing my mother or for
running around,
I do forgive him.
Lord, I extend my forgiveness to
my sister and brothers.
I forgive those who reject me,
lied about me, hated me, resented me, and competed for my parents' love.
Those who hurt me or physically
harmed me. For those who were too severe on me, punished me or made my life
unpleasant in any way.
I do forgive them.
Lord, I forgive my spouse for
lack of love, affection, consideration, attention, support, communication, for
faults,
failings, weaknesses and those
other acts or words that hurt or disturb me.
Jesus, I forgive my children for
their lack of respect, obedience, love, attention, support, warmth,
understanding, their bad habits; falling away from the church, any bad actions
which disturb me.
My God, I forgive my
son/daughter in law and other relatives by marriages, which treat my child with
a lack of love.
For all their words, thoughts,
actions or omissions which injure and cause pain.
I forgive them.
Please help me to forgive my
relatives, my grandmother and grandfather, who may have interfered in our
family, been possessive of my parents, who may have caused confusion or turned
one parent against another.
Jesus, help me to forgive my
co-workers who are disagreeable or who make life miserable for me.
For those who push their work
off on to me, gossip about me, won't be cooperative, try to take my job
I do forgive them
My neighbors need to be
forgiven, Lord.
For all their noise, for letting
their property run down, for not tying up the dog, for not taking in the
garbage cans, for running down the neighborhood.
I do forgive them.
I now forgive my clergyman, my
congregation, and my church for all their lack of support, pettiness, lack of
friendliness, for not affirming me as they should, not providing me with
inspiration, for not using me in a key position,
for not inviting me to serve in
a major capacity and for any other hurt they have inflicted.
I do forgive them today.
Lord I forgive all professional
people who have hurt me in any way,
doctors, nurses, lawyers, policemen,
hospital workers.
For anything that they did to
me, I truly forgive them today
Lord I forgive my employer for
not paying me enough money, for not appreciating my work, for being unkind and
unreasonable with me, for being angry or unfriendly, for not promoting me, and
for not complimenting me on my work.
Lord, I forgive my
schoolteachers and instructors of the past as well as the present.
For those who punished me,
humiliated me, insulted me, treated me unjustly, made fun of me, called me dumb
or stupid, made me stay after school.
Lord, I forgive my friends who
have let me down, lost contact with me, do not support me, were not available
when I needed help, borrowed money and did not return it, gossiped about me.
Lord Jesus, I especially pray
for the grace of forgiveness for that one person in my life who has hurt me
most.
I ask to forgive anyone whom I
consider my greatest enemy, the one who is hardest to forgive or the one whom I
said I will never forgive.
Thank You, Jesus, that Your will
is to free me of the evil of unforgiveness.
Let that will be done.
Let Your Holy Spirit fill me
with light and let every dark area of my mind be enlightened. Amen
Some notes about forgiveness
Forgiveness is an act of the
will, not a feeling, it's within our control.
Forgiveness is not forgetting.
It is remembering, but going on loving just the same. Not pretending that wrong
is right.
To help accept an individual and
open ourselves to a particular person more, visualize him with the Lord Jesus
and say to the Lord
"I love him because you
love him."
Forgiveness is a life-long
obligation. If we are to be open to God's willingness to forgive us through
Jesus Christ, then daily, we need to forgive those who hurt or injure us.
Jesus said "This is my
commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you". (Jn 15:12)
Christ’s forgiveness is our
resource, our resource is His forgiveness
Unforgiveness puts you in the person’s power.